Sadly, they don’t know as well! And that’s what makes them even more confusing for men. Now, just because they can’t tell you upfront what they really want doesn’t mean they have no idea what they want from their man. So if you want to know what attracts women they want from you, you’ll be in a lot of trouble.
What women want from their partners is as diverse as the clothes in their closet. You really cannot have a list of women’s idea of “ideal man.” What can be attractive to some may be a turn-off to others. Don’t waste your time thinking of what they want; instead focus all your energy to making yourself desirable!
If you wonder why bad boys attract women, it’s definitely not because they are “bad boys.” They exude a certain personality that makes women feel edgy. The bad-boy culture breaks the norm that women have been used to. It doesn’t mean also that the girls are “bad” just because of their association. It also doesn’t call for you to become “bad” yourself.
To make use of the reference “bad” in a more constructive way, you need to develop a personality that will set you apart from the rest of the crowd. Something endearing, mystifying, and out of the ordinary. Make yourself unforgettable.
Take this scenario for example. A girl asked you, “What are you doing here?”
Your reply is, “I just thought of spending a little time here to unwind.”
That could draw out some kind of response. Or maybe not…
Now what if your answer is, “Actually, I’m a stranger here. I’m 300 miles away from home. Just got the urge to travel today. Can you show me around?”
That would make you sound more interesting, wouldn’t it?
The moral of the story: do something out of the ordinary. Be spontaneous and adventurous. Wear your hair differently or have a total change of outfit. Get out of your “normal” self and widen your personality. Diversity is what will make you more attractive and more desirable to women! In short, what you make of yourself will help in making ladies want you! They don’t know what they want until they see you!
When you use your personality and develop it, you become an original. You will not be a copycat of the “bad boy”. Who wants a photocopy of the original anyway! Be true to yourself and women will appreciate you for it. Well, that doesn’t mean that when you eventually become a “player”, you can just be a player all your life. Women will see through you and they will just make you their boy toy. And when you find that one special person whom you want to spend the rest of your life with, you might fail miserably.
Be the best MAN that you can be. Get out of your comfort zone and try new things. Develop your confidence by going out of the norm. Only you can set the limits to what you can achieve. If you have that attitude, women will fall for you!